Is My Dog Smiling at Me… Or About to Bite?
- Sara Scott
- Nov 12, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Nov 24, 2025
A friend of mine lives in a rural area and works with livestock guardian dogs. Recently, one of his dogs started doing something new: escaping from the enclosure where she’s supposed to stay with the sheep. Not running away exactly, just… leaving her post. And when he’d go to collect her and bring her back, she’d do this weird thing with her face.
“It’s like she’s baring her teeth at me,” he told me, “but not in a serious way?”
I knew immediately what he was describing: a submissive grin.
When I mentioned this term to him and a couple of other people, they’d never heard of it. Which honestly surprised me (I guess I’m just a dog nerd) but it’s one of those behaviors that looks completely bizarre if you don’t know what you’re seeing, and it’s often misinterpreted as aggression. So let’s break down what a submissive grin actually is, why dogs do it, and what it means for you.
What Is a Submissive Grin?
A submissive grin is exactly what it sounds like: a dog pulling back their lips to show their front teeth in what looks unsettlingly like a human smile. But here’s the thing—it’s not aggression. It’s actually the opposite.
Dogs display submissive grins as an appeasement behavior. Appeasement behaviors are part of a dog’s natural social toolkit. They’re signals designed to de-escalate tension, avoid conflict, and communicate peaceful intentions. You’ve probably seen other appeasement behaviors without realizing it: yawning when stressed, licking lips, turning their head away, scratching, or approaching in a curve rather than head-on. These are all ways dogs say, “I’m not looking for trouble. Let’s keep this friendly.”
Understanding Appeasement Behavior
Appeasement signals are actually a crucial part of how dogs navigate their social worldx both with other dogs and with us. They’re conflict-avoidance strategies that have been hardwired into dogs through evolution. In the wild, avoiding unnecessary fights means avoiding injury, so dogs developed this whole vocabulary of “let’s not do this” signals.
These behaviors serve multiple functions. They can calm the dog themselves when they’re feeling stressed (which is why you might see a dog yawn or lick their lips in a tense situation, it’s self-soothing). They also communicate to others that the dog has no aggressive intentions. And importantly, they’re often trying to change the other individual’s behavior—to get someone to soften their approach, back off, or de-escalate their energy.
The tricky thing about appeasement behaviors is that they can look really different depending on the dog and the situation. Some dogs will turn their whole body sideways or sit down. Some will paw at you or offer a paw shake. The submissive grin is just one tool in this toolkit, and not every dog uses it.
What’s important to understand is that when you see appeasement behaviors, your dog is communicating stress or uncertainty. They’re not being “guilty” or “sneaky.” They’re trying to manage a situation they find uncomfortable or unpredictable. The best response is almost always to reduce pressure, soften your approach, and give them space to feel safer.
The submissive is essentially the dog saying, “Hey, I come in peace. I’m not a threat.” It’s their way of defusing potential tension and signaling they want to avoid conflict.
How to Tell the Difference Between a Grin and a Snarl
This is crucial, because the last thing you want to do is misread your dog’s body language. Here’s how to tell them apart:
A submissive grin looks like:
Lips pulled back horizontally (like a human smile)
Front teeth showing, but usually just the incisors
Soft, squinty eyes
Loose body language
Often accompanied by other appeasement signals: lowered body posture, ears back, tail wagging (usually low)
The overall vibe is apologetic or nervous-friendly
An aggressive snarl looks like:
Lips pulled up vertically, often showing more teeth including canines and molars
Wrinkled muzzle
Hard, intense eye contact or whale eye (showing whites of eyes)
Stiff, tense body
Forward-leaning posture or standing tall
The overall vibe is “back off”
My friend’s dog? Classic submissive grin. She was responding to his approach. offering appeasement and saying, “I’m not going to make this difficult. We’re cool, right?”
The Bigger Picture
Submissive grins are just one piece of the complex language dogs use to communicate with us. The more you learn to read these signals, the better you can understand what your dog is actually trying to tell you and the more you can respond in ways that build trust and clear communication.
So if your dog ever flashes you what looks like a toothy smile when you’re walking toward them, relax. They’re not being aggressive. They’re just trying to tell you they’re friendly and cooperative.
And honestly? That’s a pretty nice thing to hear.
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